West Coast Journey
So I haven't posted in a while but I'm back now to share with you my journey to the west coast. My husband and I have been experiencing alot of "life" so to speak in the last few months, births, deaths, weddings, college, job changes, anniversaries, all kinds of life going on but unfortunately a few more deaths then we would like to mention. We lost 3 friends suddenly over cancer issues and I lost a few relatives in the last 8 months also over cancer who all by the way were all various ages and not old. So we decided in light of the recent events we did not want to wait until we retire to take the journeys we have our heart set on. We want to live them now. I said to my husband Bill after the last heartbreaking loss of a dear friend, "We need to do the things we want to do now. We need to travel, I need to create photographs and present my life's work and share it with the world and I don't want to wait until I may possibly not be able to do that". Who knows what the future holds. He agreed so here we are.
Let me begin by saying within the last few years of our adventures they have either begun or ended with a wedding and or a funeral. Strange I know but maybe it is some sort of a message. Think about it. Not only do we experience life in matrimony and births but also in death so we experience life.
The loss of our friend Rich who is better known as "Lebow" died from a year long battle with brain cancer. He was a great person with lots of funny stories about his antics and had a big heart. He loved Jimmy Buffett and the beach but hated the sand. I have to say Lebow's wake was the best send off I have ever been too. He instructed his wife to tell all of us upon his death he would like everyone to wear flip flops and summer attire to his wake and share a funny story with the each other. As we walked in we all received flowered lays. There were large blown up lighted palm trees on each side of the casket and Jimmy Buffett music played softly in the background. We all shared with each other funny stories about our experiences with Lebow. I have to say it was one of the best sendoff's I have ever been too.
To make a long story short after mapping out this photographic journey to the west coast, I approached his wife afterwards to ask if she wouldn't mind if I could have some of his ashes to deposit someplace special on my journey. Carin loved the idea and I felt is was an honor to be able to to this for him and her so we made arrangements to meet. I picked up some of his ashes and placed them in what they call cremation jewelry and took him with me yesterday along with some of my fathers ashes in a second set of jewelry on our flight out yesterday morning to where we will begin our journey for the next few days, Seattle, Washington. I was assigned the task of depositing the ashes in Venice Beach and San Simeon for Lebow. My father, I was thinking I will leave some of his cremains in Yosemite. He would have loved to ride his motorcycle there. It is my honor to be able to do this for both.
Oh! By the way did I mention we are taking this entire journey by motorcycle. Yes, all of my journey's are by motorcycle. More on that story in my next entry. For now I have to hit the pavement in search of a view to photograph and of course, coffee! I hear Seattle is supposed to have the best coffee. Well, this morning I'm going to test that theory.
Cheers!
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Cremation Jewelry encasing the cremains of loved ones past. Lebow in the angel wing piece and my father in the motorcycle piece. ©dagnygallophotography. All rights reserved. |